The Dark Night Of The Soul Mate

ost of you that have been following my writing or shall I say, uncovering of the Soul mate connection, know that my emphasis has been heavily on healing aspect of soul mates, and less about the romantic emotions that this connection conjures up. I am keenly aware of all the emotions, thoughts, sexual yearning and creative energy that are encompassed within this connection. Yet the truth still remains that this a Divine connection, a SOUL connection and the experiencer will experience a series of spiritual, emotional and physiological releases and retrieval that will assist them in reconnecting with the purity of Unconditional love. This process will indeed hone our level of empathy and unfold within us innate ability to create all relationships from the depth and truth of the soul, not merely the personality.

So one of the most important and challenge of this connection is how to increase our illumination quotient, how to become one with the spiritual light of unconditional love. How to increase that light within ourselves so that it will shine so brightly that it becomes a beacon, a refuge for others that are struggling with their own illusion of darkness. This is very important work, so please do not overlook this, actually, you cannot overlook this because this is what you were born to do; at this special time in history.

This connection requires ALL o our attention, patience, endurance and as much maturity we can mustard up. As the pure force of Unconditional love sweeps through every level of every crevice, nook and cranny of our being-ness. Oh boy will it challenge you. The force is loving, methodical sand chastening all at once.

This connection will make spiritual light very real to us. It will show us, little by little that there is no ‘darkness’ of the soul, that it we are all light. This connection will surely break down our deeply held belief in ‘other-ness”, and burst our hearts wide open so that we can make room for the truth of One-ness. Unconditional Love will bring us to the resound truth that it was our error in thought that caused us pain, it will show us how our other-ness mentality is the culprit of our horrible feelings of abandonment, worthlessness, and victimization. We will KNOW that there is only light and only love.

The deep, rich and ‘float on air’ feeling of this connection is just the prelude of the excavation. If you are doing the work and allowing the process to teach you, you will be less enticed by the euphoria, but more interested in keeping a steady eye, listening ear and open heart of the mystical transformation that is taking place within. You will ask where is God in all of this? Where is love in my anger, frustration, jealous and anxiety? Where is the truth amongst the many lies I bought into? And finally, How can I be a giver and receiver of Grace? Yes, this shit is deep and absolutely no joke, so its time that we stop playing on sacred ground.

Again, do the work. Do not be afraid of the darkness, because in truth, it is merely your shadow revealing itself to you, so that you can eventually see the light. Try not to get caught up in the manmade version of love and romance, but allow Spirit to show you the truth of deep, empathic bonding where your illumination will glare out all deception and transform you into the very power of Love.