Seven Ways to Tell If You Are Made for Each Other
are you in a relationship, but still wondering if he's "the one"? Do you want to date and have cold feet about being able to know if she's the girl for you? Tired of sleeping around and wanting to
settle down?
Let's face it, at some point, the whole "love the one you're with" thing gets old. If you're lucky, that will happen fairly quickly. If not, you're still be at it well into your 50s and 60s. Honestly, there really isn't anything all that appealing about a 50-ish (even 40-ish) playboy or playgirl type who just cannot seem to settle down. It's like drinking the dregs at the bottom of the coffee pot and pretending you actually like it.
The fact of the matter is that you are designed to want permanence and security in your life. Optimally, that comes from one person that you may have to go on somewhat of a treasure hunt to find. The challenge is knowing when you have struck proverbial gold in finding your soul mate. The one person you were meant to be with.
Here are 7 Ways To Tell If You Are Made For Each Other:
1. You sense an immediate spiritual connection to him. There is something inside you, like a mini-time bomb that explodes with joy and fulfillment every time you see him or think about him.
2. You have a definite physical attraction to her, but you are willing to put that aside to get to know who she is first.
3. You notice his faults and are not blinded to them. Yet, because of the supernatural connection you sense with him, you are committed to having these as part of the package. Also, avoid the temptation of trying to figure out how you can fix him. You are watching for red flags, but not expecting perfection.
4. You will rearrange not only your schedule, but your life, to be with her. You want to do this without her even asking because you feel incomplete without her. You are smart enough to know that what seems like a sacrifice in the short-term is really the investment of a lifetime that will pay extremely huge dividends relative to your personal fulfillment and private intimacy.
5. You want to help him achieve his goals and fulfill his destiny. If you are a career-minded and ambitious woman, this may be especially difficult for you. Ultimately, men want a woman who will come alongside him
without competing with him. As much as you may expect him to demonstrate his love for you by giving up a few things, you, my dear girl, will have to do the same.
6. You see her in every frame of the movie you imagine about your future. When you think of getting married, you see her. When you think of becoming a father, she's the one carrying your child. When you think of sitting in the rocking chair on the front porch in your old age, she's rocking right next to you. If you cannot imagine a future without her, do what it takes now to make it so you that won't have to be without her in your future.
7. You just know. In today's society, the concept of trusting your instincts may seem to be lost in the garble of technological overload. You've had enough life experiences to know the difference between knowing what and who is right for you, and what and who isn't. Do not allow past misjudgments and mistakes overshadow the fact that you still have an intuitive reflex that will guide you along the course and into your love destiny.
There is no formula that can dictate your passions or your potential. At some point, you will have to simply have to test and trust that gut-level response in determining who will commit to and with whom you spend the rest of your life. Easy? No. Worth it...absolutely yes.
are you in a relationship, but still wondering if he's "the one"? Do you want to date and have cold feet about being able to know if she's the girl for you? Tired of sleeping around and wanting to
settle down?
Let's face it, at some point, the whole "love the one you're with" thing gets old. If you're lucky, that will happen fairly quickly. If not, you're still be at it well into your 50s and 60s. Honestly, there really isn't anything all that appealing about a 50-ish (even 40-ish) playboy or playgirl type who just cannot seem to settle down. It's like drinking the dregs at the bottom of the coffee pot and pretending you actually like it.
The fact of the matter is that you are designed to want permanence and security in your life. Optimally, that comes from one person that you may have to go on somewhat of a treasure hunt to find. The challenge is knowing when you have struck proverbial gold in finding your soul mate. The one person you were meant to be with.
1. You sense an immediate spiritual connection to him. There is something inside you, like a mini-time bomb that explodes with joy and fulfillment every time you see him or think about him.
2. You have a definite physical attraction to her, but you are willing to put that aside to get to know who she is first.
3. You notice his faults and are not blinded to them. Yet, because of the supernatural connection you sense with him, you are committed to having these as part of the package. Also, avoid the temptation of trying to figure out how you can fix him. You are watching for red flags, but not expecting perfection.
4. You will rearrange not only your schedule, but your life, to be with her. You want to do this without her even asking because you feel incomplete without her. You are smart enough to know that what seems like a sacrifice in the short-term is really the investment of a lifetime that will pay extremely huge dividends relative to your personal fulfillment and private intimacy.
5. You want to help him achieve his goals and fulfill his destiny. If you are a career-minded and ambitious woman, this may be especially difficult for you. Ultimately, men want a woman who will come alongside him
without competing with him. As much as you may expect him to demonstrate his love for you by giving up a few things, you, my dear girl, will have to do the same.
6. You see her in every frame of the movie you imagine about your future. When you think of getting married, you see her. When you think of becoming a father, she's the one carrying your child. When you think of sitting in the rocking chair on the front porch in your old age, she's rocking right next to you. If you cannot imagine a future without her, do what it takes now to make it so you that won't have to be without her in your future.
7. You just know. In today's society, the concept of trusting your instincts may seem to be lost in the garble of technological overload. You've had enough life experiences to know the difference between knowing what and who is right for you, and what and who isn't. Do not allow past misjudgments and mistakes overshadow the fact that you still have an intuitive reflex that will guide you along the course and into your love destiny.
There is no formula that can dictate your passions or your potential. At some point, you will have to simply have to test and trust that gut-level response in determining who will commit to and with whom you spend the rest of your life. Easy? No. Worth it...absolutely yes.
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